...that's why I thank God for this imperfectness...

Menjadi diri sendiri adalah lu yang bener-bener lu. Bukan meniru orang lain. Gampangnya, jangan mau terpengaruh lingkungan luar yang kita anggap lebih baik daripada apa yang kita punya.

Menjadi diri sendiri bukan berarti menolak jika 'disuruh' melakukan perubahan, tetapi lihatlah dulu perubahan yang akan dilakukan, is that will change the real personalities in you? If it is, then don't do it. If it ain't, then you might want to consider to do it.

If u apply the major changes in your self, people around u like your friends, your best friends, even your family won't recognize you. They will ask 'Who the hell are you? I don't recognize you at all.'.

Even your heart will ask your self 'who am I? This is not me.' and you will feel uncomfortable with your own self. If you change into a positive things (major positive things), sometimes people will gladly accept you, but question yourself : 'do I want to live in lie? Do I have to do this to be accepted by my surroundings?'. When you find the answer, I'm pretty sure you'll just become your own self, not live a lie. That's why, you don't apply major changes to yourself.

If I said like the paragraph before, I think you'll ask me : 'Well then? That means I don't have to change a thing in me, fab?'. The answer is in yourself actually. None of your friends are supposed that question. It really is your choice whether you want to apply some minor changes or not. However, in my opinion, we have to start making minor changes to ourself if that is better for us. Try our best if we wanna become a better person. You will find some obstacles in your way, but it will help you even become a better person. Sometimes you will fail when you want to become a better one (you want to make changes, but you couldn't. When you are in that position, people will think that you are not changing at all eventhough you try (worst, people don't even think that you want to change. Well, they don't know cos they don't see the result.), but will you quit because of that? Nope. Don't ever. Try your 'bestest' if your best is not enough.

What do i do to become myself? Well, simply because you are not perfect. No people are perfect in this whole world so, why should i be another imperfect character? Is there any reason to do that? Tell me in your comments. I'll have a response to that. How to thank my imperfectness? Easy. If I'm perfect, i will not struggle, i won't have to change. If so, why even i want life in the 1st place? It'll be fun at first, but then you have no purpose, you won't try your best because everything you do is a perfect thing. For me, I WILL APPRECIATE ANY PROGRESS YOU MADE and i care less bout the result. That's why i thank God for this imperfectness.

When to become yourself? ALL THE TIME. Don't you ever become somebody else (unless you are showing your performance in theaters or movies) because you will feel uncomfortable. Trust me, it doesn't work. Is that what you want? I don't think so.

Even if you are a LOSER to everyone, but if you have tried your best, then you are a WINNER to yourself.